See for example B. People who know me as a person rather than a profile are better at setting me up than the Shadchanim at SYAS. Just because a person is single entitles no one, not even a shadchan who is "helping" that single, to be rude and cruel. What are your plans? Saw You at Sauna! One of my friends questioned whether men on SYAS get the same treatment, considering the fact that I have heard there are many more women on the site than men. I know that people may have went inactive for a while, but I guess this is the best way of evaluating it. Yoreh K'Chetz February 24, , 8:
The reason why the men get more matches is because they send everything to the men first. In my experience, absolutely zero 0 blind shidduch date in any media has ever produced a meaningful serious relationship though a few have resulted in good friendships. Who taught these supposedly frum individuals that it is under the guise of Torah to give unsolicited criticism in a mean and cruel manner? Years ago I went on a lot of shidduch dates. What I didn't receive, but what I have heard story after story about, especially recently, was grief about the pictures I posted on the site. There are some who really are well-meaning, helpful and making real efforts to make shidduchim, which I definitely agree is an important task. I do personally know of a couple or two who was introduced through the site. But I had a couple of interactions where the shadchans made rude comments to me about my declination of dates and about my profile on the site. Participant Well I met my wife on frumster. Reply Link Michaltastik February 24, , 8: Users create profiles, but instead of searching for other singles users choose matchmakers who do the searching and suggesting for them. Since I started dating I would not be surprised if I have received at least 1, total dating suggestions; but like Kohelet, I have not found even one. You can guess why. Yochanan February 28, , Minor differences in minhagim can be overcome. You can go on vacations anywhere, whenever. The problem is you have to decide if you want everything or just some things, then work it out from there. However, despite empty platitudes of encouragement, it is obvious that this system does not work for everyone, and I would place myself in this category. I know that people may have went inactive for a while, but I guess this is the best way of evaluating it. Reply Link Joel February 23, , 2: In all seriousness when the time comes you will find your match. I do think it's important to make introductions between singles and to encourage marriage. But I also quit because of the mistreatment I received from several of the shadchanim on the system. A bad sign since it clearly indicates the matchmaker ignored what I had to say. Shrink February 27, , 9: Avrumy February 24, ,
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